Value your people!

You have so many people in your life but some of them must be special to you and you must have put efforts for that person. But it all started from being stranger to a person whom you trust blindly. It is hard to find person who match your interests, understands you, supports you, has got that vibe which attracted you. Everyone you meet does not become your closed ones as one is interested and the other is not. A relation builds on trust, mutual understanding, mutual efforts and that makes a bond stronger, the one you can rely on. Never take each other for granted instead of that respect each other, show love and care which they deserve, protect them.

Things may change when new people come in life but you should never forget who are your people, who stayed by you when you were going through hard time. People tend to give up on their people when they meet new people it’s not necessary that this would happen every time but mostly people take their closed ones granted knowing that they are always gonna stand by their side. They surely will stand by them but to a particular extent if you ignore them or if they feel unwanted they will find their way out of this. Suppose you have got new person in your life with whom you bond well and because of that you are not able to give your person enough time. It’s not that the person has no one to talk but the person doesn’t want to give up on you so never disappoint them. It’s natural when you are with a new person, you spend more time with them in order to know each other. But again do not forget your people and make sure they are not getting hurt.I am not saying that you should stop making new friends, just remember not to forget old ones and after all handling a relation is on you; the priority you give to each relation. In this process of finding new people do not end up with breaking up with your person and sticking up with wrong person.

Stop thinking and caring about every people who doesn’t matter in your life. Sometimes you end up hurting your people while caring for them. But you should understand who’s gonna stand by you in the long run. You should never give up on people but make sure when to stop. Sometimes you care too much about a person and suffer alone whereas that person has no idea what are you going through. At such times think about yourself whether you need such a people in your life. You are more important, your mental health is more important so be selfish during such times. Take care of your people; do not try to hurt someone intentionally, value the relations and if anything goes wrong communicate and solve the problem instead of ignoring each other.