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Imagine you like sweet food and I’ll just give you sweet things to eat a whole day would you be able to eat that? Answer is a big ‘NO’; you can’t have complete sweet food for a day. What I want to say through this is there is certain limit to everything and everything feels good till that limit, if you cross that limit things may become unbearable or may deteriorate your health. Now the same thing applies with who you allow to be in your life as people also has good and bad sides and it completely feels great when you see a person’s side which is pretty, where everything feels good but after few months you get to know that person and in the same way you know that person’s flaws which may lead to fights, arguments, difference in opinion, what hold that relation is affection, care, love. But sometimes things become unbearable, lines are crossed and you suffer, everything feels like torturing, you are mentally unstable but still you try to make it work. At this time be selfish and leave that person as you are your important asset and you will find lot of people who will treat you good, respect you. Now that doesn’t mean you will leave your friend or partner whenever a small fight or argument happens.

When you are friend with someone or in a relation if your friend or partner is dominant they will try to change you but you need to be wise enough to see whether it will help you grow or they are just trying to change you for their convenience. If they try to change your bad habits it will help you to be a better person but if it kills you from inside then don’t change. Usually people tend to change as they have the fear of losing their partner but don’t ever do that. A person should accept you all your flaws as it differs you from other person. How beautifully Selena Gomez has said in her song,” I needed to lose you to love me”. We often misunderstood things like being in love doesn’t mean only sweet things will happen; arguments and fights are a part of it but harassment and mental tortures are not a part of it and we humans need to understand it. Toxic relations are harmful, they destroy you. You start to doubt yourself, the concept of love or friendship changes in your mind. I know everyone of you must have gone through heart break which has made you wiser now that how you must be treated. But the toxicity in a relation makes you doubt on yourself. You start to think that am I that hard to love, you start losing your worth. But keep in mind you are great and not a problem to anyone, it’s the other person who has a blindfold on and is not able to see your worth.

So leave that person who constantly neglects you, doesn’t value you, takes you for granted, always doubts you. Don’t ever lose self respect in order to make a person stay because when a person wants to stay he /she will not bring such a day where you need to force him/her to stay. One important thing is that whenever you are having trouble with a person leave that person and if you are not understanding what to do share it with yours friends and not with snakes and when the situation is out of your control do tell your parents as they are the one always standing by your side. Leave that person whose presence suffocates you or keep distance with that person. Forced relation never work it’s all about vibes that you get from a person and that attracts you, give yourself a try, meet new people where things are not forced, you feel good about yourself. Self realization is must as that will made you realize that the person needs to get out of your life. Don’t be fooled by your emotions and lastly have gratitude towards the amazing people and what you have in your life.