Self Love!

Imagine, you having a heartbreak and everything just shatters down, you are unable to believe on yourself, finds acceptance from another people but at first place why am I using the word imagine because everyone of us must have gone through all this stuff. Now this gives rise to a term called “Self Love”. Self love in this generation has become necessity as you just can’t rely on another person for source of your happiness, love, worth, acceptance. When you depend on other person for all these things and incase he/she leaves you, you will again find another person who will give you happiness and you will end up getting heartbreaks all the time. So the first thing to remember is that don’t jump from one person to another person to seek happiness instead be the source of your own happiness. I know happiness comes in different forms and most of the times it’s our loved or the one close to you but no one has seen future so rather finding happiness in others, be responsible for your happiness as loving yourself, being yourself will never disappoint you rather it will help you grow.

Start focusing on yourself; get to know more about you. Stay wise enough to understand what will hurt you and stay away from it. Take care of yourselves like a baby as you are an important asset of yours. When you get to know a stranger you become friend with him/her then you share things; you become close that you know everything about that person. So in the very same way be your friend, get close to yourself and know who you really are. The relation you have with yourself is most important as it will define you and your growth. Similarly how you see yourself, treat yourself is also important. Add peace and value to your life, forget the things that don’t define you. Accept yourself the way you are rather than blaming yourself. Pamper yourself instead of being tough on yourself. When you accept yourself whole heartedly you will realize that you are beautiful, adorable the way you are and you are enough to love yourselves. You will watch yourself growing and turning into more confident person.

Happiness is something you create for yourself by yourself so do the things which you love. Spend your time on your hobbies, passion and the things which will give you happiness. Read books which will change your outlook towards life, do positive affirmations. Other people can have impact on you but you have biggest impact and influence on you. Once you are happy from inside you will spread more happiness, positivity around you. So keep smiling and love yourself!