It feels good in the beginning!

Beginnings are amazing, new things are amazing. You just feel that everything is meant for you and so that new job, friendship, relationship, etc seems so good to you. You are cheerful, excited, have lots of expectations/dreams, ready to do everything as it is the initial stage but what happens after that is what I am going to discuss today. Let me explain this by an example, two people meet and they become friends in the beginning they hangout, know each other, they are at their comfort zone with that person. We are humans, we have flaws. Every person has that good and bad side but it’s on us how we take it. So when you start being with a person he/she starts knowing other things besides your choices and that is your habits, your behavior with respect to situation, the good things in you, the things which irritates him/her. At the initial stage you forgive the person if he/she does something that you don’t like but maybe after few months those things will turn into arguments, fights. Then one of them gets fed up of the behavior of the other person and here comes end to their friendship.

Getting fed up of someone’s behavior and then breaking up is the easiest thing to do & everyone does that. But the thing to notice is that you both are close to each other that means the person with whom you have broken up must also facing these things but rather than breaking up he/she choose to forgive that as people are more important than these fights. As a coin has two sides similarly every relation, things have ups and downs but what matters is not giving up on each other. As success and failure is a part of life similarly happiness and fights are part of a relation. But if a relation turns out to be toxic for you, you must clear that and then leave rather than ghosting. The problem with today’s generation is that they don’t want failure, heartbreaks. They just want everything to be happy, as per their wish like a fairy tale and so they just try to meet new people as there are no expectations, no attachments and everything just goes great. Despite of knowing all the flaws of a person and sticking around to him/her is the real thing.

The same thing goes for your dreams, job, at beginning you will feel good but then you will get bored, try to give up. At such times try to remember what this means to you and back in past how badly you want that thing to happen. So be grateful for what you have in your life, value it.