Go away!

We have heard a lot of times to be away from negative people as negative people have problem to every solution. If a person is not good for us we can avoid that person for sure, but what about negative thoughts. We have always been told to be away from negative people but no one ever told us how to do it. But first find that whether you are a positive or a negative person based on the decisions you take for yourself. So always be careful about the decisions you take because these small steps decide many things.

So now dealing with negative people, if the person is not close to you, you can keep distance with that person. While doing friendship we can’t get to know whether the person is negative in first few meetings. As they become close we get to know the things so at that time we can’t just quit. Instead try to change the perspective of that person, ask him/her to have faith and confidence in himself/herself. Due to this they will think good as well as you won’t be affected by their negative thoughts. You can just show them the right way that is to think positive because you can’t control the persons thought. Some people won’t listen to you when you tell them to think positive but when you try to do some thing they will interrupt you, they would try to lower down your faith and confidence and when you are not able to do the work as expected their words will stuck you, eventually giving you a reason that you can’t do it. To avoid such things don’t tell anyone about your next move, plan as different people have different perspective the one you consider as your hobby someone can see it just a nonsense thing. So when you are trying to new things and have pretty confidence in yourself just do it, if you want you can take into consideration the people who are close to you and the people about whom you are sure that they won’t misguide you. Don’t ever start the blame game be responsible for the choices you have made and have the courage to face them.

People around us affect our behavior but it is you who doesn’t need to get affected by it. I know it is not possible at all times that things won’t affect us but you can surely control them as you know what is good for you. We all face internal struggles we are on the urge whether to give up or not but giving up would never take you anywhere. You need to fight against all the odds have faith in yourself that you can do it, reward yourself when you complete a task. Build a good habit that will help you keep on going. Choose one task at a time and complete it, we often run behind doing many things at a time and end up doing nothing. Just say all the negativity to go away and achieve great things and don’t forget to smile.