Friendship Vs Relationship

Before starting I wanna ask a question, whom would you choose if you have to choice between your friends or your girlfriend or boyfriend, whom would you choose? I was asked the same question when I was playing truth & dare online with my friend and at that time he asked me a question “If you have to make a choice between your best friend or bf whom would you choose?” Without giving a second thought I immediately replayed best friend as I have never experienced being in a relationship. Then it was my turn to ask him a question so to know his opinion I asked him the same question but the way he replied was totally different. So he said “It is not always that your best friend is right and your girlfriend/boyfriend is wrong. The one who is correct or a better decision giver I’ll choose that person”, what he said really made sense & I totally agreed his opinion. Just scroll through your social media and you will get to see atleast a post that says how boyfriend or girlfriend are always wrong and your best friend is always correct and choosing your bestfriend is always a good option. Social media glued in my head that best friend is always right and a girlfriend/boyfriend is always wrong but that day I realized it can be either way also.

The other thing that happens is priority changes, let me create a scenario that there’s a girl who is single and her friends mean everything to her but when a boy came in her life as a partner, boyfriend she gave him more priority that she forgot her friends and her world started revolving around him completely. It is good that she has found a great partner whom she trusts completely but the friends who once topped her priority list are lost somewhere. We don’t know future and so we just can’t tell that a person is going to be in your life or not how much hard you try to hold that relation.

Friends and our partner both are equally important and both play major role in our lives and so we should give equal importance to both of them. The thing is to be aware of who is good for you and who is not, maybe a person is friend/boyfriend/girlfriend with you since many years but can have jealousy towards you or may have some wrong intentions so choose wisely and if you have a friend & a partner who are helping you through your ups and downs, stopping you from doing wrong things then you are blessed to have them. Whether it is a relationship or friendship the thing that matters is personal growth and you can really sense that when you are around certain people you are learning something new it may be getting knowledge, seeing things through different perspective, learning from the experiences that they have gained. You learn from the things that you go through life so make every memory count and show gratitude towards what you have in life.