Don't stay in past

You are living your life, everything is going great and then suddenly something happens which disturbs you as well as change you. Now the change can be good for you or bad it is basically on how you digest it. But when something happens mostly with our closed ones mostly friends, lovers then you tend to change and that change is nothing but you stop trusting others, you don’t get attached to them as you have the fear of someone breaking you it’s not just fear but you are afraid of the consequences, the sufferings and it doesn’t happen only with you everyone is afraid of these things. But the truth is these things are a part of life and if you keep holding it you will remain alone.

I know it is harder to trust people but you have to trust them as you can only see people all around you, wherever you go you will find people around you and these days people are even going on Moon so even if you try to go there you will meet one or other person. Okay so the thing I am trying to tell you is you have to deal with humans either way. So based on one bad experience don’t think that everyone is same, I know believing someone after such experience is difficult but you just can’t start running away from people. Take time, don’t open up to anyone until you are not sure about a person but that doesn’t mean you will take life long period. When you start judging people based on your past experience you are still living in your past. Doing this thing is just like I won’t take admission in college as I have fear that I might fail. Giving second chance to people is not bad, if a person understands his/her mistake and is willing to change it is a good thing. Don’t just give second chances to others, give second chances to yourself also as at the end it’s you that is going to matter.

Now the same thing applies for situations or events that took place in the past. Now take an example of a singer who achieved tons of awards in his/her career and now he/she thinks that he/she is the only one and so he/she puts less efforts in work based on the awards that he/she has received in the past. Due to this his/her work becomes less favorable to the fans/audience out there. Now the consequence of this is he/she can get into depression or may stop doing their work. It is just matter of efforts and each of us should always give our 100%. You should never be in past as you have present to create your future and that’s all matters. Today you are topper of your class/ employee of the year in your office/ the person to win the best award but based on the past you just can’t say that I won’t work/ I won’t study if some other person puts more efforts he/she is likely to get success.