Does distance matters?

Everyone of us must have seen the movies, web series or some random videos which show how long distance relationship or friendship doesn’t work and after viewing it you must have also thought like that as they have shown all the ways how it won’t work but is it true? Everyone of us may be having a long distance friend or relation and you are still making it work. The word distance is not just a measure from one place to other but it has became a test of your bond, emotions, trust.

For once ask yourself “Does distance really matters?” The answer maybe either ways as it depends upon the bond you share with that person, understanding between you two and other things also matter. Speaking about any relation everything has to be two sided when it comes in maintaining a relation –trust, faith, love, affection and every damn thing. People having same importance in each other’s life will tend to become friends no matter what happens and basically we decide with whom to keep a relation so consciously or sub-consciously we decide who is important and who needs to stay in your life. The another kind of friendship in which you don’t expect anything from each other at such times daily talks in not necessary as nothing is expected at all and this may happen as you are not that close to the person.

Distancing with your favorite person always hurts however we are lucky enough to have technology to be in contact with each other and share things. Sometimes distancing is good as it helps us understand the value of the person. When your Mom is not at home and everything goes wrong in home at that time you understand her value and the efforts she put. Distancing is good if you wanna get rid of a person. It is not true that we will always meet people who are good for us, mostly we don’t get the right ones and that sucks so distance plays a great role to get rid of a person. Basically distance doesn’t matter but our priorities matter. When you are friend with someone and after few years you get distanced with them at such times do communicate with that person, show importance of that person in your life because long distance doesn’t go good always it depends from person to person. Everyone have expectations from each other when they are long distanced so don’t disappoint each other, have faith in each other, believe in each other and if you are in a long distance friendship, relationship may you get to see your person soon.