Dealing with Problems

I am at that stage of life where I can see everything falling including me LOL! Being a kid was so fun, you have to eat, sleep, and repeat. When I was a kid I used to think of growing old, go to college and office. Me and my friends used to play “office office” and all that stuff where you can earn money and that too with fake money. Those were the golden days where you play all day, life was beautiful. Everything can't be good there has to be a villain in everyone's life whether it’s your childhood or adulthood, someone is always there to disturb you and your little world. As you grow up responsibilities are put on your shoulders and slowly life happens.

Stop running away from responsibilities

We humans exist on earth for a reason. Even a small insect exists for a reason so shame on you if you are running away from your responsibilities. The challenges and the problems we face makes life so beautiful. Just imagine, everything is perfect just the way you want. There is no tension, no worries, everyone is happy and living peacefully. Won’t you feel boring living such a life where you don’t have challenges and everything is going smoothly? Even while playing a game you will love games that have challenges in it otherwise there won't be any reason for playing it. The same thing goes with life; if you don’t have any objective your life would be worthless. Therefore, stop complaining about the problems you have in life and be grateful for having one. Even the problems in life are similar to the gameplay. The levels in the game keep rising similarly as you grow up life becomes difficult. The smaller problems are gone and now you have these big ones which may affect someone's life.

Why problems come in life?

An interesting thing about the challenges, difficulties you face is that you gain experience and learn something from it. Yesterday, I went to a shop and purchased things but forget to take the billing receipt. The shopkeeper now claims that I didn't pay money. The lesson I learned from that experience is that always ask for a receipt. Every person is different and their behavior is unpredictable so make sure you don’t fall for sweet words and fake promises. The more people you meet, you get to know more personalities and at the same time, you will understand the selfish motives of people. So don't fall for it. There's a boy who used to lack confidence, he was scared of public speaking but while learning in college sir asked him to present a topic. He was scared and thinking about how to tackle this problem but during the presentation, he did very well. With different problems, you learn different things. During such problems, you understand what things you are capable of doing. Therefore never think of challenges as a hindrance to your growth, you grow because of the challenges you face. Have a company of good friends who will support you in such situations and increase your moral.

Conclusion:

Problems are a part of our life. Running away from them is not an option so face them and grow. Don't carry the baggage of your problems everywhere. Learn to live in the moment. Don't just think about your problems, instead think about the solutions and ways to execute it. Learn to be calm in tough situations which will help you find the solution.

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