Accept things

Every one of us have problems but some of us make it as a part of ourselves and carry it. If we look clearly most of them are temporary in nature. We just need to start accepting the things that are happening with us or around us. You would always be disturbed or you won’t be able to focus if you start living with your problems. So the best way is to accept it and then find solutions to overcome it. There are some problems which we cannot change or which are not under our control like any disability. You just can’t move forward if you keep on crying and criticizing ourselves for who we are. So just start accepting the way you are and embrace yourself. Accept the people around yourself as they are, if you are not able to cope up with someone or you later understand the true nature of a person which is not good for you just accept it and ignore the behavior probably you won’t get hurt or feel any heartbreak.

When I was a child the things that I always used to hear were "Why are you so quiet?" & "Don't u talk". Actually I get to hear these things now also, when someone comes home they say "Does she speaks only few words a day? "Actually it's not the thing that I don't speak, I do talk but with only the people I am comfortable with. Hearing these questions first I used to think that why am I like this? But then I googled, took various personality test and this made me curious to know more about myself and now I say that I am an introvert I have accepted the real me and so now I don’t get disturbed when such things happen.

Accepting who you are or your problems will not make them disappear but it will make you aware of who you are and your potentials. You will grow differently, make efforts to turn yourself to grow out of your comfort zone and others comments won’t bother you.