Quarantine: An opportunity

Every one of us must have thought that if I had ample of time I would work upon this and that, as daily routines make it difficult to work upon. The one who truly wants something works upon it rather than making excuses but let it go at this point. As everyone knows Corona has hit us hard and has taken so many lives. It is actually danger for humans so we are home quarantined to stop further devastation. So do not risk your lives and stay home. Many people find it difficult to stay at home and they get bored easily but I am actually enjoying this and I seriously don’t understand when the day starts and how fast time flies away. I think this is the perfect time for everyone of us to stick to our roots, do what you have always wanted to do but didn’t have enough time. Stick to your hobbies and stay at home. Right from government to police everyone are there on streets to protect us but we people do not have that basic sense that everything is for our safety, instead of that we are roaming on streets and making it m worse. Kudos to the people who are staying home and supporting the government as well as keeping themselves safe.

Here’s a list of things you can do during quarantine and keep yourself busy.

1. Let’s be fit: Due to your busy schedule you barely have any time to look upon yourself. This is the perfect time to start exercising and be fit. Sitting at one place increases body fat which eventually becomes home of diseases. So wake up early do exercise, yoga and keep yourself fit. Don’t go out for walking rather than that walk at home, there are so many videos related to it on Youtube so just check them out and start work out.

2. Family Time: Again due to work schedules you must not be able to give time to your family. So now your whole family is together spend some time with them. Play indoor games like cards, ludo, etc there are tons of games you can play. Apart from that you can watch movies together or you can try some fun activities together.

3. Develop your skills: You have got this time so rather than wasting it just do something productive which will help you in the long run. Develop your skill related to your profession or you can learn other things too. Example: Learning a new language, inculcate some habits that will be beneficial for you.

4. Binge watch: There are so many web series out there so you can watch them to cut the time.

5. Play instrument: Remove the dust from your instruments and starting practicing them as music is the best way to get over things and keeping you engaged.

6. Follow your hobbies: Everyone has hobbies which slowly disappear with time. So nurture your hobbies. If you love to paint then start doing it why waste time. Read novels or other books as they always help in long term and keeps you engaged. Gardening is fun so if you are fond of it start doing it. If you love to write you can start with writing blogs or articles. Many people who don’t know how to cook should start practicing it as food is our basic need.

7. Pamper yourself: Do relax, have a good sleep. Some people work so much that they don’t have time for themselves and for their family. Now you have got enough time to relax so enjoy it.

Stay safe and make these days productive.

Value your people!

You have so many people in your life but some of them must be special to you and you must have put efforts for that person. But it all started from being stranger to a person whom you trust blindly. It is hard to find person who match your interests, understands you, supports you, has got that vibe which attracted you. Everyone you meet does not become your closed ones as one is interested and the other is not. A relation builds on trust, mutual understanding, mutual efforts and that makes a bond stronger, the one you can rely on. Never take each other for granted instead of that respect each other, show love and care which they deserve, protect them.

Things may change when new people come in life but you should never forget who are your people, who stayed by you when you were going through hard time. People tend to give up on their people when they meet new people it’s not necessary that this would happen every time but mostly people take their closed ones granted knowing that they are always gonna stand by their side. They surely will stand by them but to a particular extent if you ignore them or if they feel unwanted they will find their way out of this. Suppose you have got new person in your life with whom you bond well and because of that you are not able to give your person enough time. It’s not that the person has no one to talk but the person doesn’t want to give up on you so never disappoint them. It’s natural when you are with a new person, you spend more time with them in order to know each other. But again do not forget your people and make sure they are not getting hurt.I am not saying that you should stop making new friends, just remember not to forget old ones and after all handling a relation is on you; the priority you give to each relation. In this process of finding new people do not end up with breaking up with your person and sticking up with wrong person.

Stop thinking and caring about every people who doesn’t matter in your life. Sometimes you end up hurting your people while caring for them. But you should understand who’s gonna stand by you in the long run. You should never give up on people but make sure when to stop. Sometimes you care too much about a person and suffer alone whereas that person has no idea what are you going through. At such times think about yourself whether you need such a people in your life. You are more important, your mental health is more important so be selfish during such times. Take care of your people; do not try to hurt someone intentionally, value the relations and if anything goes wrong communicate and solve the problem instead of ignoring each other.

Everything happens for a reason

Life is all about experiences. The experience can be good or bad but each experience comes with a lesson to serve you for a greater purpose. Remember the time when all odds were against you but you didn’t gave up, fought for what you want rather thinking why it is happening to me. The things that break you are the ones that make you. Everything happens for a reason; the people you have in your life are here for a purpose, you won’t understand it now but you will be thankful for what happened. Sometimes people come in your life to change your perspective towards something.

Everyone has a role to play either good or bad. Suppose you lost a person you love or you lost your job, it’s not because you are not worthy but universe wants something big to happen for you and that’s why making you strive. Just have faith in god and he will make things happen for you. The heartbreak you had must be there to realize you that you deserve more love and you shouldn’t be treated badly by anyone. Sometimes you hold on a wrong relationship because it continued for several years but when it ends you still try to hold on as you lose a person whom you love. But that breakup happened as you deserve to be treated better that how you are treated now. Maybe it happened to help you grow, change perspectives, learn different things.

The things you are going through now are making you serve for a greater purpose, making you strong to achieve your dreams, goals. The heartbreaks that you faced are for you to understand life is beautiful after deleting that person and for some realizing that you still love each other. Trust breaks, heart breaks make you understand whom you should trust, for whom you should give your 100% and whom to let go. If you start thinking everything happens for a reason you will start taking things positively, look for something good when anything wrong happens which will surely change your outlook towards life. Remember the people you meet, the situations you are going through are making you sustain for something bigger. Trust the process, stay safe.