Men's don't cry

In childhood if you fall while playing or hurt yourself by some ways everyone used to say don’t cry but if you are a boy you would have got to hear “Boys don’t cry”, “Strong boys don’t cry”. Because of this it has become everyone mentality that boys are not supposed to cry. Whenever a boy cries people around him says “Don’t cry like a girl”, it is now fed in our heads that girls only cry and boys are not supposed to.

God has gifted us with these many emotions and everyone expresses their happiness, anger, sadness, grief, joy but when it comes to crying why lag behind. Many boys think that I am strong as I don’t cry. So I would like to correct such people that expressing your emotion is not what makes you weak. Many people judge boys/men weak if they start crying and it is totally wrong, you just can’t judge anyone as you don’t know what they are going through so a request to all females out there rather than judging, help your friends out if they are suffering pain maybe they just need someone to understand and support them. When we are physically injured you take medicine to heal but what about mental pain, no pills are going to cure that. Crying is a human response to pain and sorrow, it is healthy. It helps to relax us as crying activates parasympathetic nervous system (PNS), it can lift people’s spirit, make them feel relieved. As everything has certain limit crying also has, if you start crying frequently it may be a sign of depression.

As you are not ashamed of expressing other emotions, never ever get ashamed of crying. Every emotion has a purpose so does crying has a purpose too. So don’t think twice just express how you feel and never leave hopes everything will go well. But make sure everything is within limits so you don’t need to consult a doctor.

Holiday!

After reading the title you guys must have known what this blog is all about. Like everyone I also love holidays because it’s about fun, travelling, endless sleep and laziness too. Now that I have completed my Diploma, I have tons of holidays so I have been to one of my best friend’s place. So she lives in Nandgaon , which usually takes 3 hours to reach from my place and ours was a trio including her. So let’s start the journey:

Somewhere back in 2018: From 2018 she was forcing us to come to her place but we didn’t took it that seriously because we have never been to my friends house for stay. Then in November she again told us to come but because of some problems it didn’t work out. As I told earlier I have completed my Diploma so we decided to turn this plan into reality. We have made lots of plans earlier but all in vain, this happens with everyone and especially Goa plans lol! So on 17th May our exam finished and 20th May 2019 was the date we have finalized to go.

20th May 2019: We were waiting for our bus to arrive which was supposed to come by 9’o clock. Till that time we were busy clicking pictures as we were excited to go there. While travelling one always get to know different people and their weird behavior and I also saw & talked to one of them. We reached her home around 12:40. One thing I forgot to tell is that she belonged to a Jain family, they dine earlier and I & my other friend being Marathi we didn’t have habit of eating early. After reaching there we did our lunch and as we have travelled for hours we were tired so we slept and in Nandgaon there is enough heat in summer that one can’t go out. In evening had been to Jain temple which was beautiful. As it was a village everything was near, one doesn’t need to travel long distance to purchase anything, I really liked that place. After dinner we sat outside in cool winds enjoying our ice-cream. On that day we were unable to sleep as we had a long sleep in afternoon.

21st May 2019: Although we slept late at night, I being a morning person woke up early and today we were going to visit her school and a temple. School holds a special place in everyone’s heart and we both were eager to see her school because of the name of the school, I had never heard such names of school so her school had special place in our hearts too. In evening we first took blessings from God and then we saw her school, which were pretty good. As we used to do our lunch early and had no work to do, we used to sleep shamelessly during day and used to stay awake at night playing cards.

22nd May 2019: Today I wake up earlier than yesterday, having nothing to do. Our day used to pass by just by eating and sleeping and evenings used to be beautiful as we used to visit different places. Today we were going to visit Lord Hanuman tekdi (small hill) and this was our last day in Nandgaon so we have decided to go an click pictures as a memory. We reached there before sunset and were mesmerized by seeing that place. It was such a silent place and winds were so fast, one can feel on the face. We clicked some pictures and then silently sat there watching a beautiful site.

Although before going there I had many doubts in my mind but it turned out to be good and to everyone out there if you are planning such things make it work, gain experience, learn new things, meet new people as life is all about experiences. So try out new things if it turns out to be a bad experience, learn from it and you would cherish a good experience for lifetime.

Superstitious mind

How many of you have heard that “When a cat cross your path, it is a bad sign or something bad would happen”. Everybody must have heard about this superstition. So there are many superstitions which people believe without checking the truth behind it. Most of the people don’t believe in it but still there are some people who still believes it, they visit these f**king baba’s to find out solution to their problems. I understand when people are in trouble they need someone to show them the right path and all these baba’s take advantage of it. I am not saying all of them are fraud but most of them see this as their business to make fool of people and earn money through it. Sometimes people around us also tells us some things to do to make something happen eg. feed these number of cows, pray God. Now there’s a difference between being superstition and having faith or a support system.

Let’s assume that I am bad in studies, I can’t concentrate and someone told me to go to a particular temple once in a week and do this and that. Now I followed that for a week but nothing happened. Now it’s common sense that nothing can happen unless I will make it happen, no god is going to come to help me in studies. It is me who is supposed to put efforts and make it happen but people don’t understand this thing. If there’s a fight between a couple and they stopped talking to each other no god is there to help them out unless they choose to talk to each other. I have heard a lot of times people saying worship this Lord so things will become well but we all know these things doesn’t work. We have to fucking burn our ass to make things happen. When there’s fight between me and my friend we talk and sort things rather than doing other useless things.

Now most of us know this is wrong, when we see other people giving such suggestions to others, we say he/she is making that person fool nothing can happen by doing this. During such situations people can understand that this is wrong but when something bad happens with us and someone tells such useless advice we listen them and follow them without checking the reality, whether it will truly help me or not because we want to come out of that situation. Instead of doing this try to be calm, understand, figure out things and choose solution wisely, think practically and act. Remember success is not gifted, you should work for it. So keep trying, fight for what you want, have faith in yourself and achieve great heights!