Does distance matters?

Everyone of us must have seen the movies, web series or some random videos which show how long distance relationship or friendship doesn’t work and after viewing it you must have also thought like that as they have shown all the ways how it won’t work but is it true? Everyone of us may be having a long distance friend or relation and you are still making it work. The word distance is not just a measure from one place to other but it has became a test of your bond, emotions, trust.

For once ask yourself “Does distance really matters?” The answer maybe either ways as it depends upon the bond you share with that person, understanding between you two and other things also matter. Speaking about any relation everything has to be two sided when it comes in maintaining a relation –trust, faith, love, affection and every damn thing. People having same importance in each other’s life will tend to become friends no matter what happens and basically we decide with whom to keep a relation so consciously or sub-consciously we decide who is important and who needs to stay in your life. The another kind of friendship in which you don’t expect anything from each other at such times daily talks in not necessary as nothing is expected at all and this may happen as you are not that close to the person.

Distancing with your favorite person always hurts however we are lucky enough to have technology to be in contact with each other and share things. Sometimes distancing is good as it helps us understand the value of the person. When your Mom is not at home and everything goes wrong in home at that time you understand her value and the efforts she put. Distancing is good if you wanna get rid of a person. It is not true that we will always meet people who are good for us, mostly we don’t get the right ones and that sucks so distance plays a great role to get rid of a person. Basically distance doesn’t matter but our priorities matter. When you are friend with someone and after few years you get distanced with them at such times do communicate with that person, show importance of that person in your life because long distance doesn’t go good always it depends from person to person. Everyone have expectations from each other when they are long distanced so don’t disappoint each other, have faith in each other, believe in each other and if you are in a long distance friendship, relationship may you get to see your person soon.

The End Game

Welcome to the End Game – the end of the world. The consistency with which we have been spoiling our planet will surely lead us to the dead end. It is so unfair that how we have described our planet as Mother Earth and ruined her by every possible way. We humans have become so selfish that we have literally forgotten that if Earth is destroyed we are also destroyed. Everyone is aware of the climatic changes that are occurring for which we humans are responsible. From past 20 years 6457 recorded disasters have occurred in countries like India, Indonesia, Philippines, US and China. The number has increased since past few years where India broke the record of number of cyclones hit which have turned to 7 in 2019. Over 950 climatic disasters have occurred in 102 countries mostly in Asia and Africa.

Day by day the situation is becoming worst – India and Bangladesh hit by Fani, Earthquake in China, Drought in Somalia, Iran floods affected 90% of the country. This will not just give rise to population displacement but tons of problems occur- people lose their family, disrupt accessibility of health care, food, water. The undue climatic changes give rise to infectious diseases which are uncontrollable. Along with these losses the country faces economic losses, everything gets disturbed. Everything has rules that we must follow else malfunction occurs, so does humans need to follow the laws in order to protect nature. There is rapid growth in industrialization which is great but the waste is not treated before dumping it, environmental bylaws are neglected which is only going to harm the living creatures on planet. Everything is going wrong- the climatic changes; extinct species came to an end; burning forests; cutting down of trees- we humans are creating hell for ourselves and for all the living creatures out there.

This surely needs to be stopped; we should take every possible step to stop this no matter how small it is. Say no to littering and say yes for planting more trees. You never know how your small steps will bring big changes. Stop using plastic and don’t feed animals in plastic bags as they don’t understand it is harmful for them so we must be careful. I have written this just to make everyone aware of the current situation and we still have time to overcome it and stop exploiting Earth for selfish reasons.

Will you hear me?

Let me take you in past when you were just a small kid and had millions of questions and misconceptions in your head. Most of the time you must have asked your parents about it and they have also tried to answer your questions. It was that age when anything used to happen you would immediately tell your family and when they didn’t listen you, you must have been angry and when you grow up you starting sharing your happenings with your friends and now I am at a stage that I had opened my life to everyone of you through writing these blogs. The thing is that each of us wants to be heard that doesn’t matter you are young or old, each of us wants attention and affection.

Listening is not just for replying but to understand what the person is suffering and going through so always try to be a good listener and the person who is opening their life up to you means not just sharing their day. For someone it can be freeing their thoughts which they suffering for and for someone it can stop them from going in depression. We have made our head a bag that we keep dumping many things into it and then over thinking it which may lead to breakdown or your mental health deterioration but when you share what’s going in your mind it will free you and you will get suggestions on how to overcome problems. We often give importance to physical health but remember that mental health is also much more important. Again the thing comes of whom to share with so share it with a trustworthy person who will help you get over your problems or refreshes your mind or gives you another direction of seeing things.

Sharing doesn’t mean you will share your thoughts or sufferings with tons of people who doesn’t even care about you instead share it with that one person who truly understands you and supports you after all what matters is quality not quantity. Sometimes you are all alone and don’t understand what is happening to you or don’t want to share with anyone but that thing is eating you from inside at such time write it down, trust me it really works. When I was small and didn’t understand what is happening to me I used to write it down which used to clear my mind. The other you can do when you are stressed is play with your pet, feed them which seriously lightens your mood or you can play with a kid or with your sibling. At such times do what you love, give your hobbies an upper hand as it will make you feel great, fill you with positivity. Lastly have gratitude towards the people who you have in your life, who stood for you in your bad times and keep sharing!